Fidgeting
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Originated by Brendan Fernandes
Suppression of fidgeting has led to a number of displacement behaviours that are, in many ways, less healthy than the original fidgets.
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Definition
There is no real proper definition, other than some form of behaviour that is not necessary and achieves nothing in itself other than to relieve anxiety or boredom. Sometimes, fidgets are designed to give the impression of doing something.
Examples of fidgeting
Smoking
Smoking is perhaps the one of the most common fidgets, and one of the least healthy. I propose that workplaces offer non-smokers "fidget breaks" so that they, too, have some designated time to relieve anxiety. Smoking in social situations is the perfect example of a "prop fidget", i.e. something that allows you to give the appearance of performing a task, in order to fill in gaps in the conversation. When in a conversation and wondering what to say next, a smoker will often draw on the cigarette for around 7 seconds and then say something. For a non-smoker, to leave a gap of 7 seconds in a conversation would appear to be an uncomfortable pause, or a "pregnant pause" (why is it called that?).
Fidgeting Topics
The Extended Fidget
Large-scale behaviours that are wholly unnecessary, such as going for a walk.
The fidget-friendly pub
Pubs with plenty of things to fidget with. Also has a special sealed room for people who want to scream or cry.
Do animals fidget?
Animals certainly fidget when they are in the zoo. This is because in a zoo, they do not really have anything to do or achieve in order to survive. In a really confined space, they will often pace up and down and move their head about.
Modern theories of fidgeting
Few detailed studies have been done on fidgeting, and whether or not fidgeting has increased as a result of modern living. In tribal societies, people have more to do, and are always weaving a basket or having sex or hunting with spears. So they probably don't fidget as much.
It is said that fidgeting helps people to remember. For example, gesticulation during conversation is not necessarily to convey information, but often as a personal memory aid. It's also said that children who are allowed to fidget in class are more likely to learn stuff.
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